If I was a flower… What kind of flower would I be? A daisy, I think. Yes, a daisy.
Why?
Daisies are considered common. They are not talked about as extraordinarily beautiful, although they definitely have the capacity to be described as such. They are almost taken for granted, in a sense.
However, the power and quiet beauty of the daisy is only muted in this outside perspective. The daisy itself stands completely unaffected by society’s judgment of it. The daisy is strong, and strength means that you can take care of the people you love.
My beautiful son and stepdaughter are the orchids to my daisy. Like the orchid, their beauty is very easy to see. They are also both very fragile like the orchid, having been born with ADHD and sensitivity to stressors in the environment.
Children who are nurtured through challenging situations have the potential to turn into something incredible. If they are protected during their growth, they have the ability to become much more resilient and powerful than the average person.
It is perhaps no surprise that children who are more impulsive and susceptible to their environments are known as “orchid children” in wider society (so I can’t take credit for the poignant association earlier!). Orchids tend to fade if they are not protected through harsh conditions. However, the proper care and attention creates a masterpiece of a flower that is known and beloved the world over.
Science supports what we instinctively know as well. Many studies have shown that environmental susceptibility is actually just hidden potential – potential to connect more deeply with the people and things around you. Orchid children have the ability to become more engaged, and it is the job of us daisies to make it happen. Our quiet strength transfers very well into these young sponges, and they give it back to the world in a way that we never could.
If you are a daisy, don’t fret! Find an orchid to nurture. Watch your beauty flourish in the world through them and revel in the knowledge that it came partly from you.
Now. Keep scrolling if you want to see one interesting look for Spring. It is after all a fashion blog!
Acknowledgements
I want to thank Cathi at Over The Hill On The Yellow Brick Road for inspiring me this blog post as one of the questions she asked when nominated me for the Sunshine Blogger Award was If you could be a flower or a tree, what kind would you be? I knew immediately what my answer would be. Please, give her a visit. You won’t regret it.
Photo of 3C Style by Marie-Claude ViolaThis is how I will be wearing my floral print dress this season… As soon as it gets a little bit warmer.
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Look at those colors! Those flowers! Beautiful! If only my rainbow bearded iris were in bloom! It would be a perfect match! Love this!!💚
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Ha, I love iris! Such an elegant flower. Thanks Roda.
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Beautiful post! There is more spring in your post then in the air! Love it!
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Thanks Elena!!!!!! So sweet. Thank you again for letting me borrow your beautiful earrings. xoxo
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You will always be a beautiful exotic orchid to me Dominique 🙂
I do very much like the message in your post, but then you knew I would.
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Awww Thanks Darren. Exotic? Probably to you because I speak French! I like it. Yes, I knew you would appreciate this post as you were obviously an Orchid child yourself. Despite everything you have been through you are now blooming. It makes me very happy to see you becoming the man you are meant to be. 😍 Stay strong my friend. Much love.
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Thank you dear friend😍. Dx
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Yeah! A daisy would suite you. The pics were beautiful!
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Yep, I like daisy too. Thank you Shreya. xoxo
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Une petite fleur parmi les fleurs !!!
Très jolie.
Bises
Tony
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Un gros merci à toi Tony! De: petite fleur. 😍 J’aime la poésie de ces deux mots.
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Tellement beau, tellement vrai, c’est une ode à l’enfance que tu a écrit là; et plus particulièrement à nos enfants. Merci Dominique.
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Je savais que tu apprécierais ce texte à sa juste valeur. Merci à toi de me lire et de ton habituelle gentillesse à mon égard. xoxo
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Aaah! What a beautiful post. You have given me lots to think about. I’m flattered and happy I could be part of your creative process.
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And again a big thanks to you my friend!
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Reblogged this on ERA Vintage Wear and commented:
Such incredible thoughts and style! xxxxxx ..and I would be a dandelion!
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I thought about that one too. Very strong, resilient and quite special indeed. It’s the only plant that can grant a wish to someone else! In my book that’s pretty cool. 😍
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How very lovely…so beautifully written…and I love the dress.
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Thank you so much!
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PS. Tu exprimes cela avec une telle justesse et une grande délicatesse . Tu m’as fait pleurer!
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Oh, désolée. Si cela peut te rassurer, j’avais moi aussi les larmes aux yeux en pensant à eux. Merci Imelda! 😍
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Really heartfelt post. I love Daisies too, I have a great big one on the bonnet of my Beetle. I grew to love them after the quote from the film ‘youve got mail’ where Meg Ryan says “Dont you think Dasies are just the friendliest flowers!” Thinking of you as you continue each day being the Daisy to you orchids.
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What a beautiful comment Alison. Thanks. I had forgotten about this quote. I wish I had not so I could of put it into my post! 😉
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The post was lovely just as it was.
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Aww… 😍 Thank you!
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The pics of you are as usual beautiful and those flowery colors suit you incredibly😍😍😍I love the “orchid children”…….I think I’m one of them😉
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You definitely seem like one as creativity and beauty go! 😍
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Oh…..be careful I could get used all these compliments😉…..thank you❤️
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You deserve them! 😊
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This dress is gorgeous, what a beautiful photo. I just called my daughter in to show her. My daughter is online at the moment looking for summer floral dresses for work and she just saw this photo of you and loves it as well. Flowers always put a smile on my face. There should always be flowers out in the world on everything.
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I totally agree with you! And thank you so much for this lovely comment. The dress is vintage from my friend at ERA VINTAGE WEAR. Tell your daughter to have a look at her online shop. It’s worth it. 😍
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Gorgeous post as this theory is near and dear to my heart. Your dress is full of life and beauty, you are stunning inside and out my friend. 💐💟
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Thank you so much Lisa. Ditto! BTW, this dress would look great on you too. 😍
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Just checked out Era Vintage Wear, such beautiful items! That yellow coat 💞💗
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It is very similar to the one I have and that you like.
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The daisy and its cousin, the black-eyed-susan are two of my favorite flowers. They thrive in the harshest of conditions and return year after year without fail. I had no idea your kids had ADHD. I’m sure they are amazing kids. My husband Bill does some substitute teaching and is often paired with ADHD kids. The teacher calls him the “ADHD whisperer.” The stories he tells about their potential and the difficulties they face are truly fascinating. I can’t even imagine how much they struggle in the confines of the typical educational system. All I can envision is how much they will blossom once they are unfettered. They will truly grow into beautiful flowers with the strong roots you have given them. ❤️💕❤️💕❤️
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What a kind and lovely comment. Thank you Linda. Bill is right about the potential and difficulties they face. My hubby also had to face many difficulties at school until he found research, which got his full attention. He is now an international well known researcher. That’s a positive example I think. xoxo
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That is very cool! What does your husband research?
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He is a specialist in the functioning of the brain and vision. He works with various populations: the elderly, children with autism, high-level athletes…
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That sounds fascinating. Does he ever work with migraineurs? Vision can certainly be affected during a migraine headache.
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Good point. There is indeed a link, but no he has not studied this problem.
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It’s a pity. I was hoping he could explain why the color red becomes more vivid to me when I have a migraine. My migraine specialist had never heard of such a response. Leave it to me to be weird…errrr I mean unique! Haha!
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Yes, very unique indeed!
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It is fun to imagine people as flowers. I often ask people what their favorite is and plant it in my garden–
I love flowers on cloth, too. I wear the colorful things anytime in the year when I need a lift. Or I just BUY some flowers for my window!
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What a nice idea to plan flowers in your garden that remind you of people. I might start doing that as well. I read somewhere that flowers are the daily bread of the eyes! Thanks so much Kris for this lovely comment. Hope you are doing well and your sky is bright blue. xoxo
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Yes, flowers feed the soul and friends help in that as well! I’m glad this sparked an idea for you.
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Yes I agree! Thanks for the idea. I just think it’s brilliant. 🌺
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I may quote you….brilliant. 😍😍😍
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I love it… I’m so vain! xoxo
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Nice Daisy it is Dominique. Good reading indeed
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Thank you so much Kurian!
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You are welcome Dominique
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Beautiful outfit and I love the colors on that dress, you look so beautiful and amazing
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Thank you Tashnee! I really like that dress too. It’s the kind of piece you put on and you instantly feel good. Don’t know if it’s the floral print, the cut of the dress or a mix of both… But it works! Have a lovely day my friend.
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I love this post, and your humility 😊. You are too unique to just be the daisy 🌺
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Aww… So sweet! Apparently the daisy is a very complexe flower according to Darren. Not as “common” as people may think. I rather be a complexe person than just pretty. Pretty is general and general is easily forgotten.
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That must be true if Darren says so! I would never question his bloom knowledge🌺
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Me either! 😉
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Flatterers, the pair of you! Dx
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I have been called worse!😜
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Ha, ha… So do I!
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I know you well enough to know you are just being funny. So my first instinct is to reply: You’re too kind! 😊
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What a lovely, bright post Allison. I never thought of” being strong “is that beautiful until you said it is important for taking care of whom we love. It is true orchid children give our lives meaning.
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Thanks for your kind words. Yes, the kids are the best flowers of my garden. Thank you for taking the time to read.
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I love this colorful outfit!! Beautiful!
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Thank you! Just visited your blog and I must say I like what I saw. Yay! Another fashionista that transforms her clothes instead of buying new stuff all the time. You got my follow.
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I’m glad you like my makes! I really love the customize thighs.
Thank you for your nice comment 🙂
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I do like your makes. Can’t wait to read more of you.
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A beautiful and heartfelt post, Dominique! You’ve quite opened my eyes because I realize that I’m an orchid child, well adult by now 😉, myself!! Which might explain why the daisy truly is one of my very favourite flowers!!! And your dress looks fabulous – so bright and colourful just like spring itself! 😊😍💕
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Your comment means a lot to me Sarah. I suspect many of my WP friends were an orchid child and I hope they will realize it and bloom. Thank you so much. 💞
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Reblogged this on Ellustar Fashion.
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Thanks again for the reblog. Have a lovely day!
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It is my pleasure.The same too you.
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I feel like if I was a flower I would be a Tulip. I don’t know the exact reason why, but I just like Tulips and their boldness.
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I like tulips too! To me, they are very much like a Daisy. Pretty, yet simple and humble… And they can be wild as well. Thanks for your lovely comment. Have a great day!
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This is lovely…Look how gorgeous you are in all those colours, Daisy 😘😘
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Thank you so much for the kind “shout out” to my blog. And…what a lovely concept, when you wrote: “Find an orchid to nurture. Watch your beauty flourish in the world through them and revel in the knowledge that it came partly from you.” When I have trouble letting go of my own, young adult children and sharing them with other families as they branch out into new relationships, I will remember your words about the daisy and the orchid.
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What a touching comment Cathi. Mentioning you and your blog was the least I could do as you were the one who inspired me this blog post. Thanks a million for taking the time to write me such a heartfelt comment. Much love to you my friend.
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I love back to you, my friend.
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Thank you so much!
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Oh my!! How you started your blog with all the natural elements, I loved the concept of daisy and orchids ❤ ❤
You write so beautiful, and with that you are a fashion savvy too 🙂
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You are very kind. Thank you for this lovely comment and have a gorgeous day!
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